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Find A Role Model
Seeking and trying out different ways to become a success is always recommended. One of the most effective ways of becoming a success is through the process of trying to emulate someone or something. Because the success is already somewhat like a blue print to follow and is very possible to achieve the effort directed towards the goal becomes easier.



Look Up To
When there is a visual example the task of having to push one’s self without direction does not become a problem as the motivating factor is the example set.
Having a mentor who will be there to motivate and advise is also very advantageous especially when the proposed task is rather challenging and perhaps even hard to achieve. Emulation is always easier than paving the way on new ground.

Having a role model also helps the individual to know and understand exactly what it entails t to see the endeavor to its success. The role model can present a very tangible example which can help the individual weight the various possibilities within an endeavor before actually launching into it.
Role models also help to set the pace and benchmark for the individual to follow. These examples can be followed and improved upon, throughout the journey to success.

Seeing the desired goal as an achievable element is a very powerful tool to equip one’s self with, therefore taking the trouble to find and follow a good role model is a wise thing to do. Sometimes a seemingly insignificant thing like dressing for the part as seen in the role model also help to develop the mindset set for success.
If there are instances of minor setbacks or failures the individual is able to tap into the knowledge and style pre established by the role model to work round the problem with some degree of success.

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Recognize And Demonstrate Your Value
There are several ways to recognize and demonstrate an individual’s value whether it is in relation to work ethics, style, business accruement or even more personal elements like family, entertainment and a host of other avenues.

The Value
Finding the more subtle ways to demonstrate these values is in itself a valuable trait as not much can be achieved when those around loath the personalities who are attention seeking.
One way of doing this is by presenting one’s credentials clearly displayed on a calling card. These business cards are a great way of introducing one’s capabilities without being pompous about it. It is in fact simply stating facts of achievement on the individual’s part.
Having such certification to back the reference on the card will show the professional capability and credibility of the individual so that due recognition can be established. This also puts the individual in a knowledgeable position on a particular topic.

Whenever there are instances that present themselves where the individual is able to shine the opportunity to do so should be taken quickly and decisively. Contributing in an area where the individual is confident in his or her contributing capabilities is a good way of showing the value gained in picking them for the task.
Making one’s self available to assist in any familiar area also helps to establish one’s obvious capabilities. Always be ready to add value, knowledge and expertise to any endeavor presented. This will influence those around to be more positive in their assessment of the said individual. When an individual is always willing to try out new things and learn from experiences then this is a good place to start leaning and fine tuning skill acquired along the way.

These skills should then evolve into a platform of confidence in taking risks and decisions that would otherwise be deemed irrational. The recognition derived from these sometimes taxing exercises can also produce the individual that can be clearly accepted as valuable.

The Bad Points Of Not Chasing Your Dream
A large majority of people would rather life within a safe and unchallenging boundary for fear of failure. Thus the popular saying – nothing ventured nothing gained. However the most telling result of this way of thinking is the eventual regret felt which almost always is irreversible.

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When an individual is unable to identify and map out a possible plan for working towards a goal, this individual is likely to make a habit of setting for just a mediocre life.
When this habit is clearly and concretely formed, the “fight” factor that is the important ingredient in achieving milestones will never be developed or even become completely nonexistent at all. Allowing this rather negative trait to manifest will not benefit and may even cause the individual to live a lack luster life, always settling, instead to trying to push for greater heights.
If there is no zest for chasing a dream, there will be no goal to achieve. Most individuals like the idea of always being challenged to achieve better things simply because it seems to give them a reason for existence.
Another negative trait that often surfaces when there is not dream to keep an individual going is bitterness. Bitterness can have such detrimental effects on any individual spanning from the mental to the physical capabilities until the said individual is just a shell of his or her original self.

In Conclusion
Becoming stagnant in one’s personal and work life is also another result of not being able to have a dream to chase. Scientific research has proven time and time again that if an individual is not challenged mentally and physically they will eventually be reduced to a state of boredom and then despair which will eventually result in depression. Having a dream to chase or a goal to achieve will provide the necessary distraction that can and will keep the mind and body alert and functioning to its optimum.

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